God Provides in His Time – A Chapter Draws to a Close

Not quite a year ago, we put our house on the market.  We knew Zac would be getting orders sometime this summer and I really felt God telling us it was time to get out of debt.   We put it on a over a year early thinking it would sell, we could live in the trailer (or base housing), and potentially be debt free by the time we moved.

Up until just recently, it was also an IF we move.  We knew we wanted to sell, but we were still working to see about staying here for another tour.  We came close, but in the end, we’ve been called to elsewehre.  It’s been a bit of a struggle in this market to remain hopeful, but we knew that God would provide in the right time.

Last month, the military confirmed that Zac would be going to Scott AFB in Illinois at the end of May.  While it is not set in stone, the assignment now shows up.  This meant that besides just “wanting to be out of debt”, the pressure was on to get out of the house by then.

Since January of 2011, we’ve had 10 showings.  That’s it! In this real estate market houses in our price range and location are just not moving.  We live in the country on five acres.  People are moving closer to town to save on gas.  Two of those ten showings were Saturday.  One of those showings has made an offer that we accepted yesterday.  It could still fall through (let’s all pray it doesn’t), but now we need to look forward to what selling the house means.

First, it means we have to PACK!  I’m not sure if the military will pack us four months before our scheduled move date, let alone store our stuffs for four months. Zac and I will both be out of town a week this month so if we have to do it ourselves that will consume us for the next few weeks when we are home.

Second, it means that I really need to figure out what we need to have on hand to live in our fifth wheel through the end of winter, spring, and into the summer.  Fortunately, the trailer is stocked with most of the essentials, but still – we’ve never lived in it more than a week or two.  What do you do with two kids, a dog, and a husband in a “house” the size of a bedroom?  How do I set up a workspace that allows me to work from “home” successfully?  What do I do with ALL of the food we have?  No way I’m storing it for 4 months and I can’t fit it all in the trailer pantry.  More importantly, how do I entertain a 5 and a 10 year old in a trailer for 4 months?!?! How do I do laundry for a family of 4 without breaking the piggy bank ?  (The RV park machines take lots of quarters!)

Even with the stress and the questions, God is good and has provided this opportunity at the perfect time.  We’ve made it to within a few months of the move, past the majority of winter, and just before the pressure would have really started to mount.  Ohh, and since the trailer has been in the shop the last 2 ½ months, He’s waited until we had a chance to actually get it back in time!  Let’s pray they can actually deliver by the time we need it!

Soon I’ll be writing posts about the best way to clean out black tanks, cook in a kitchen w/ no countertops and a stove the size of an Easy Bake Oven, and how to manually adjust the satellite dish we’ll be throwing outside!  I’m REALLY looking forward to it!

 

2012 is the year of FOCUS

The last 15 years of my life, I have had focus but it has been on things that I don’t particularly place on my “high value” list.  I’ve been in careers that have required me to spend an average of 60 – 70 hours a week focusing on clients’ or students’ needs instead of my own.  Any available time left has been spent focusing on finishing school, first my bachelors and then my masters.  2012 will be the first year since graduating high school that I will not still be in school myself.  It will also be the first time that I will be in a work place that truly cares about putting God and family first.

I’ve been at LifeChurch.tv for two months.  It is the first time in my life that I can say I love what I do for a living and feel like my work has purpose – I get to spend time reaching the unreachable for God’s Kingdom through a medium, the internet, that I am very passionate about.  It is also the first time that I can say I have some time to focus on the items I value.

Every year, I take a week at the end of the year to evaluate how the year went and what I’d like to accomplish the next year.  It’s my version of “Year In Review”, if you will.  This year is the first time that I can put some personal things on the upcoming list and feel like they may actually be achievable.   My list this year is pretty straight forward and requires me to set aside time more than anything else.  So here it is:

Personal Goals

  1. Spend more time with God in purposeful relationship – The last eight years, my relationship with God has been more about what Seminary has asked it to be about.  When reading the Bible is required reading, it’s hard to hear anything besides what the class is looking for.  This year I will be going through YouVersion’s year-long Chronological reading plan and then some shorter topical reading plans.  (The first topical being a 21 Day Fasting Plan to go along with the Daniel Fast the church staff is doing.)
  2. Commit to one exercise activity a day – I may look half way healthy, but I am horribly out of shape.  I am committed to doing something every day: ride a bike, go for a walk, do a workout video, whatever.  For the first quarter, I’m going to try and do P90 – NOT the X version, but the regular get your feet wet version.  Since I work from home, live on a highway, and am about 20 minutes from the closest park or gym, I figure that is the thing I can commit to for sure.
  3. Read two self-improvement books a month – This one is probably the easiest one for me since I LOVE to read, but I had to at least put it out there.  I actually have three on my nightstand for January.  My first three will be What Got You Here Won’t Get You There, The Speed of Trust, and The Christian Atheist.
  4. Cut back on caffeine – I am a coffee addict.  I drink 1- 2 pots a day by myself.  I’ve managed to cut back to ½ decaf and ½ regular, but I’d like to replace coffee altogether.  Since I’ve committed to drinking nothing but water for the first 21 days of the year, I’m going to try and continue that through the year but this one is more of a “significant cut back to one or two cups a day at max” goal.
  5. Blog Monday – Friday – I have had a blog on and off for a few years, but I’ve never really used it.  Part of the reason has been it hasn’t had a purpose or a plan behind it.  This year, I’m going to try and be intentional by splitting up the days into specific topics.  Each day is aimed at a specific item on my personal goals list so it’s more accountability and journaling to myself than sharing with the world.
    1. Monday  – working out/healthy lifestyle
    2. Tuesday – discussion on my current book
    3. Wednesday – free for all
    4. Thursday – menu planning/recipes
    5. Friday – ministry focused

Family Focused

  1. Healthy kid lunch options – My kids love to take their lunches to school but all I feed them is PB&J, applesauce, yogurt, and juice.  It’s time to shake things up.  I am going to find at least 10 lunch meals that my kids will eat (key words there) and that are healthy.
  2. Make one night a week dedicated family night – We do quite a bit at home together; however, it isn’t family-focused.  It’s typically TV-focused.  As a family, we are committing to one night a week without TV and doing something together.

There are some other minor things that could be added to the list, but these are the big ones.   The ones that I want to hold myself accountable for at the end of the year.